Do you have problems with your family or partner?

​Do you identify with some of these myths?

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• MYTH: “THE HALF ORANGE”:Believing that the couple we had predestined is chosen. Example: This is the man of my life, and although my relationship is a disaster,  I can't imagine myself without him and taking care of my children alone.

 

• MYTH: "THAT MY GRANDMOTHER AND MY MOTHER DID IT": Believing that we should live the relationship as the women of the family have done. Example: “My mom told me: that's normal, your dad was worse, but over time he has changed; also, how are you going to separate if you got married by church; we have not taught you that, the woman must fight for the home.” 

 

• MYTH "JEALOUSY":Believing that jealousy is a sign of love. Example: "I should appreciate that my wife is jealous of me,  worse than not caring who I talk to. We are different  In many things, I am calmer; for example, I'm not jealous, that's why we complement each other.” 

 

• MYTH "OMNIPOTENCE": Believing that love can do everything or that any sacrifice is valid for the couple. Example: “Many friends have told me that “love can do everything”, that if I make an effort he will change. In addition, a friend separated for the same reason and now she has to assume all the responsibility for the children alone. I would not want to be the center of comment of the world for a failed marriage.

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• MYTH "THE CONFLICT": Believing that conflict is harmful and that a good couple does not argue. Example: “I have preferred to avoid more problems; and I don't want to be mocked by people saying that I let myself be hit by my wife, that's why I remain silent”.